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Why more women are resorting to cheating on their husbands?
This mother-of-two, who is in her late 30s, keeps track of her potential paramours via spreadsheet, has an untraceable Google Voice number for communicating with her suitors, and arranges rendezvous through WhatsApp.
She generally juggles multiple sexual partners at a time, and once had sex with four different men on the same day. Sure, one of those four hook-ups lasted all of 20 minutes, but she didn’t care — she didn’t want to be “cuddled.”
Afterward, she says, she showered, took a work meeting, went on a dinner date, and had “fun” with another man.
Her verdict: “It was amazing.”
“It was so cool because I got to really be in the driver’s seat [and] get exactly what I wanted — and I just happened to feel sexually greedy that day,” Nikki (not her real name) reveals in the new iHeartRadio podcast ''She Wants More,'' hosted by author Jo Piazza.
“It’s … such a power trip to be able to command the sexual presence of people you desire and have them fulfill whatever it is you need,” Nikki tells Piazza. ”It’s crazy.”
Nikki appears on the first episode of “She Wants More,” Piazza’s eight-part series examining female infidelity.
Piazza, herself a married mother of three, has spent the last five years interviewing wedded couples for the podcast ''Committed.''
But about two years ago, she learned that a friend of hers was cheating on her spouse. Then she learned of another, and another.
Piazza was shocked, and intrigued.
“I [was] seeing so many more women I know have affairs … and a lot of women I didn’t expect,” Piazza, 42, told The Post.
She spent a year interviewing some two dozen women, of different ages and backgrounds and from all over the country, about their extramarital affairs — from a young gymnastics coach who fell in love with her husband’s best friend, to an accomplished 60-something who has been happily cheating on her husband with multiple partners for over 30 years.
The podcast tells their stories, with additional insights from experts like Susan Shapiro Barash, whose book about women’s affairs, ''A Passion for More,''
At first, “I went into it with my own judgment,” Piazza admitted. “I’m married, [so] I was like, ‘Oh my gosh, it’s the worst thing you can do!’”
But she learned that women had all sorts of complex reasons for seeking sex outside of their marriage — and that doing so did not ruin their lives.
Nikki says that she has become more confident, more self-assured and more relaxed since signing up for hookup site AshleyMadison.com and embarking on her first affair more than a decade ago.
Before, she would beg her husband to spank her or pull her hair, anything that would add some excitement in the bedroom — and then feel embarrassed or ashamed, even undesirable, when he would ignore her requests.
Now, Nikki says, she’s “less resentful, less spiteful.
“I don’t have a lot of tension built up in my chest or stress or anxiety or any kind of that negative cloud that grows within you when you go without for so long, and you start looking at this person like, Why can’t you understand? Why can’t you give me these things? Why are we stuck in this marriage when I deserve to be happy, deserve to feel good?” Nikki confesses. “Having that room to breathe just makes you less bitchy, for lack of a better word.”
While every woman has different reasons for cheating, many of the podcast’s subjects share similar traits.
Often, they met their spouses and married when they were very young — late teens and early 20s.
For several, sex with their partner happened often less after having children, and they felt a lack of confidence or attractiveness as a result.
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This mother-of-two, who is in her late 30s, keeps track of her potential paramours via spreadsheet, has an untraceable Google Voice number for communicating with her suitors, and arranges rendezvous through WhatsApp.
She generally juggles multiple sexual partners at a time, and once had sex with four different men on the same day. Sure, one of those four hook-ups lasted all of 20 minutes, but she didn’t care — she didn’t want to be “cuddled.”
Afterward, she says, she showered, took a work meeting, went on a dinner date, and had “fun” with another man.
Her verdict: “It was amazing.”
“It was so cool because I got to really be in the driver’s seat [and] get exactly what I wanted — and I just happened to feel sexually greedy that day,” Nikki (not her real name) reveals in the new iHeartRadio podcast ''She Wants More,'' hosted by author Jo Piazza.
“It’s … such a power trip to be able to command the sexual presence of people you desire and have them fulfill whatever it is you need,” Nikki tells Piazza. ”It’s crazy.”
Nikki appears on the first episode of “She Wants More,” Piazza’s eight-part series examining female infidelity.
Piazza, herself a married mother of three, has spent the last five years interviewing wedded couples for the podcast ''Committed.''
But about two years ago, she learned that a friend of hers was cheating on her spouse. Then she learned of another, and another.
Piazza was shocked, and intrigued.
“I [was] seeing so many more women I know have affairs … and a lot of women I didn’t expect,” Piazza, 42, told The Post.
She spent a year interviewing some two dozen women, of different ages and backgrounds and from all over the country, about their extramarital affairs — from a young gymnastics coach who fell in love with her husband’s best friend, to an accomplished 60-something who has been happily cheating on her husband with multiple partners for over 30 years.
The podcast tells their stories, with additional insights from experts like Susan Shapiro Barash, whose book about women’s affairs, ''A Passion for More,''
At first, “I went into it with my own judgment,” Piazza admitted. “I’m married, [so] I was like, ‘Oh my gosh, it’s the worst thing you can do!’”
But she learned that women had all sorts of complex reasons for seeking sex outside of their marriage — and that doing so did not ruin their lives.
Nikki says that she has become more confident, more self-assured and more relaxed since signing up for hookup site AshleyMadison.com and embarking on her first affair more than a decade ago.
Before, she would beg her husband to spank her or pull her hair, anything that would add some excitement in the bedroom — and then feel embarrassed or ashamed, even undesirable, when he would ignore her requests.
Now, Nikki says, she’s “less resentful, less spiteful.
“I don’t have a lot of tension built up in my chest or stress or anxiety or any kind of that negative cloud that grows within you when you go without for so long, and you start looking at this person like, Why can’t you understand? Why can’t you give me these things? Why are we stuck in this marriage when I deserve to be happy, deserve to feel good?” Nikki confesses. “Having that room to breathe just makes you less bitchy, for lack of a better word.”
While every woman has different reasons for cheating, many of the podcast’s subjects share similar traits.
Often, they met their spouses and married when they were very young — late teens and early 20s.
For several, sex with their partner happened often less after having children, and they felt a lack of confidence or attractiveness as a result.
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